I went to their wedding, looked like the perfect high school sweethearts getting married. They started the divorce process about a month into their marriage. She remains quiet in the chat for the most part (barely talked much after she started a new job. The chat was mostly made of people who played a certain online game, but I still thought of us all as friends). Then, one day, the husband loses mod privileges. A short while later, he gets removed from the chat. That’s when I found out they were getting divorced. Couldn’t believe it. She was being real vague about what happened, so I asked him. Made her seem like she was blowing small things out of proportion, acting weird. I still talked to him because he had logical explanations to all of her vague comments, and he was the only person in the group who still played the game, especially during my game time. Nearing the end of the divorce, she starts talking a bit more, contacts me directly. Apologies that she wasn’t saying much because she was worried I’d go and tell her ex (he wanted nothing to do with her anyway). Then goes into a little more detail about what happened. Put me in a hard spot; stop playing with the one person who still played the game, or confine to associate with him, basically saying that I didn’t care what he did. Easy on the surface, but It took me longer than it should’ve to come to the decision to cut him off. The whole thing soured my experience in the chat. Then, to put the final nail in the coffin, she wanted confirmation that I wouldn’t talk with him any longer or she essentially wouldn’t talk to me again. I told her that I wasn’t going to talk to him. I did not tell her that her ultimatum she gave pissed me off, like our friendship had conditions. Haven’t spoken to either of them since. I haven’t left the chat because I mostly like the other people in there, but I haven’t spoken in the group chat since, preferring DM’s to the ones I still like. Now the chat is mostly dead. It’s alright, though. I felt like I was mostly talking to myself for a while anyway.
I went to their wedding, looked like the perfect high school sweethearts getting married. They started the divorce process about a month into their marriage. She remains quiet in the chat for the most part (barely talked much after she started a new job. The chat was mostly made of people who played a certain online game, but I still thought of us all as friends). Then, one day, the husband loses mod privileges. A short while later, he gets removed from the chat. That’s when I found out they were getting divorced. Couldn’t believe it. She was being real vague about what happened, so I asked him. Made her seem like she was blowing small things out of proportion, acting weird. I still talked to him because he had logical explanations to all of her vague comments, and he was the only person in the group who still played the game, especially during my game time. Nearing the end of the divorce, she starts talking a bit more, contacts me directly. Apologies that she wasn’t saying much because she was worried I’d go and tell her ex (he wanted nothing to do with her anyway). Then goes into a little more detail about what happened. Put me in a hard spot; stop playing with the one person who still played the game, or confine to associate with him, basically saying that I didn’t care what he did. Easy on the surface, but It took me longer than it should’ve to come to the decision to cut him off. The whole thing soured my experience in the chat. Then, to put the final nail in the coffin, she wanted confirmation that I wouldn’t talk with him any longer or she essentially wouldn’t talk to me again. I told her that I wasn’t going to talk to him. I did not tell her that her ultimatum she gave pissed me off, like our friendship had conditions. Haven’t spoken to either of them since. I haven’t left the chat because I mostly like the other people in there, but I haven’t spoken in the group chat since, preferring DM’s to the ones I still like. Now the chat is mostly dead. It’s alright, though. I felt like I was mostly talking to myself for a while anyway.
Looks like you’re doing a bit of venting here but…
Wut
Yeah, sorry about that. Honestly, the whole situation is stupid and not worth the tax it’s putting on me.