

I think everyone should use whatever they like. Its ok to share experiences, and have expectations.
I use Arch (btw) on my desktop (EOS, but why reinstall arch, basically a same thing, especially cos I installed headless, and installed/configured my tilling environment) Never had issue with Gaming, even with an Nvidia card. And I have an arch installer pendrive if I need to boot into a live environment to chroot, and I have my config/rice tailored to my workflow.
Mint on my less used laptop. Currently has prue Arch with Hyprland, but I have no time to play with configs, and update regurally. Maybe I should look into Suse or Fedora? As for desktop environment, I would like to have a tilling wm without bar (small screen) but with the eas of full DEs like KDE Plasma… no such thing as far as I know.
Ubuntu or Debian for hosted/selfhosted servers. for stability/reliability ofc.
I think so, I use EOS on my desktop, but installed no desktop environment, and installed&configured a tilling wm and other stuff for my daily use. I installed Arch on my laptop and aside from the different tilling wm (and other apps for the wm) and some sensible default helper eos apps, the pacman reports are the same.