I got in “trouble” for visiting hackthissite as a freshman in high school and junior year I got an NSA pamphlet specifically sent to my guidance counselor for me.
i didn’t get as far as sql injections. Maybe they thought I was good at covering my tracks.
Quit worrying about finding people that understand you and make them understand you. My best lifelong friends I’ve had have grown together with me, went from opposite music tastes to finding bands that appeal to both of us that have become our favorites.
Like if you can trust a person you can be their friend, if you dont know anything about their interests ask them to explain or show you, if they want to be friendly with you they’ll jump at the opportunity.