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    For a moment I wasn’t sure which one of the two would be better. After careful consideration I decided both are noobs, because real pros only use emacs rigged to behave as the whole OS on an airgapped 15 year old thinkpad for anything that needs a computer, but most likely keep that in a vault too and only get it when absolutely necessary.

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    The ‘500 Days of Summer “Have You Ever Heard Of”’ meme template, showing two images of a man talking to a woman in a record store.

    The first has the man saying “I love privacy” and the woman replying “Me too”.

    The second shows 7 purple-coloured app logos above the man. Many in generic shapes, but one shows a lock keyway, and one shows a cat with a golden bell collar. Above the woman is the Google Chrome logo and a screenshot saying “You’ve gone Incognito”.

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          If it were the other way around, would it be sexist?

          Is it required that any meme with a “good” and “bad” side have no demographic distinction between the sides?

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            Yes, it would still be sexist if it were the other way around. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a meme with this format which didn’t have a “good” and “bad” side.

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              I’m genuinely curious what you’d think if they were both thin white straight-coded average-height women but with different hair color.

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                Well, it would be difficult for a format like that to bring out the biases of meme creators.

                One of the reasons this meme format is problematic is that this is a screenshot from “500 Days of Summer” which was a film that was wildly misunderstood by misogynists. The entire point of the film is to show the perspective of the male character, which villainizes the female character when she breaks his heart when she dumps him. But by the end of the movie the viewer is supposed to realize that she did nothing wrong and just wasn’t as in to him as he was into her.

                Incels and misogynists everywhere misunderstood the hell out of the themes and message. So it’s not a great movie to take a meme format from.

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            It’s not that this one example is like this, it’s that it seems to always be one way around and not the other, with this meme format

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        This meme format is inherently sexist. Anytime you have a meme format that has both a man and a woman on it, and one side is going to be the “bad” side, it’s always going to bring out the biases of whoever is creating it.

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          1 Semantics, but that doesn’t sound “inherently” sexist to me.

          2 I’m pretty sure it just makes more comedic sense to put the unexpected interpretation on the right (or women’s side), so the “bad side” is different depending on the topic. I personally see this meme more often with the man being a surface level fan of something with the women being unexpectedly deep into the fandom. Like, among the earliest known edits (according to knowyourmeme) is the man just liking sports games with the women liking soulslikes.

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      • Third party service run by corpos who pinky promise not to harvest any of your data

      • In-app tool that doesn’t cache your client-side data

      Is the woman the negative side on this?

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          I genuinely wonder what people think they’re using a VPN for. Do they think they’ve outwitted a trillion dollars in surveillance with an $8/mo subscription service?

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            Ummm yes I am betting people think that. Are they wrong? It makes sense that Google could do that if they really wanted to, but I doubt they do pretty much anything that doesn’t have a profit motive.

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            A VPN is part of a toolset. No tool alone is enough, and they only really work for some porpoises.

            Some people think it is enough. Some people think chrome incognito is enough. Some people are wrong.

            I’m any case, privacy is a spectrum. I can’t be untraceable by state agents, but I can avoid a lot of non targeted spying.

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              I’m any case, privacy is a spectrum. I can’t be untraceable by state agents, but I can avoid a lot of non targeted spying.

              Absolutely. But then, as often as not, just using the browser feature that doesn’t cache client side data is enough.

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      What? I always thought the guy was the negative side! The woman is the reasonable normie, the guy is the weirdo tinfoil hat nerd!

      What even are all those crappy icons?

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        I think it’s a fair point. Anyone could be either person so no one instance of this is directly offensive, but I agree memes like this seem to routinely put down women.

        I don’t think op is pissing and shitting and crying over it, there’s just no place to talk about it other than the meme itself. Anyone could criticise your comment in the same way, and it’s just a strawman argument.

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      i think I’ve seen a lot of cases when it’s the other way round.

      although if we do the statistics it’ll likely show a bias.

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    I want another person with neck beard disgusted by both of them using Tor, I2P, Qubes, and GrapheneOS

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    Why’s Summer using shite software. Tom was the one operating under a delusion in that film

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        No, I think that was a valid reading of the film. Both characters are kinda shit. But the dude was worse.

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      Just like in the movie. Tom is indeed delusional, Summer is just cynical in her communications. They are both using shit software. Tom is putting all his fate on a single private company in pursuit of a misguided ideal and ignoring the red flags through rose tinted glasses. Summer doesn’t want to commit at all because she knows there’s much more complex factors at play than privacy alone but hasn’t yet found someone who makes her feel safe and secure the way she wants, so she settles temporarily for what feels fun in the moment.

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          Okay, so about #1: Is there more to it than him setting of one single post praising Trump’s business skills? I mean, that’s pretty stupid, but stamping him as “Pro-MAGA” for that seems a bit far fetched still.

          About #2: That’s also concerning and pretty bad as it reads, but any company basically has to abide the country’s laws, so if Interpol orders the Swiss police to fetch the data, no legally operating company can really do anything about it or they’re gone as well. A similar thing happened to Tutanota in Germany, iirc.

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            about #1: you see, your point is already defeated, because he called you a “defender saying actually”

            ofc, you are right, and everyone saying that Proton ceo is pro maga from that one statement has reading comprehension problems

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          🤔 why is the privacy thing not the biggest threat? I would think that the privacy one would be more of a threat to privacy than the political stuff. Is that not the case?

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              Sure, I can imagine the political issues could lead to privacy issues. My question was not about whether or not that’s true[1]. I was simply wondering why a possible privacy issue would rank higher than the actual issue that has already happened.


              1. Something more specific/objective might be helpful though. Saying he’s “pro maga” is like saying he’s “bad vibes”; it requires the reader to just take your word for it without knowing exactly why. But, again, my question was more about the ranking ↩︎