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  • ummthatguy@lemmy.world
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    29 days ago

    I know a set of brothers who all have this ingrained. They have each said at one point or another “You gotta fuck the fire.”

    Hope the intent has/will always be basic firepit maintenance.

  • Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world
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    28 days ago

    This is the campfire equivalent of that one person who makes best friends with the family dog at every party. Some of us enjoy the group but our social skills are only on par with fires and dogs.

  • Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca
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    29 days ago

    There’s something really cathartic about placing shit in a firepit and just watching it burn away.

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      29 days ago

      It’s also the smell of smoke. The crackling. The heat. How the poking stick feels in your hand. Poke poke

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      29 days ago

      " …some men aren’t looking for anything logical, like money. They can’t be bought, bullied, reasoned, or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the wood burn "

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        29 days ago

        Leather can take quite a bit of heat. I wouldn’t leave it laying in the flames, nor would I hold anything for too long because eventually the heat does get through. But if you just wanna shift a log or something, it gives you more control than a stick.

      • ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one
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        29 days ago

        Legendary fire guys don’t use gloves. They have built years and years of scars, burns, and callouses on their hands. To the legends, they don’t feel the heat from a burning log.

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      29 days ago

      The OP’s observation is that there is at least one white guy that fucks with keeping the fire going. There can be as many others as you wish!

    • chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      29 days ago

      I’m black and I like fire, though aside from a fireplace visiting family once, I haven’t had much opportunities to tend an open flame. I did enjoy keeping it going that one time though.

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        29 days ago

        I grew up in the woods and chopped wood and did all the back-country stuff, but it wasn’t until looking back way later in life that I realized that we lived in what was basically rural, racist, white America. The segregation that still exists is unfair in what it denies to children growing up. I feel like if were a black parent I might have serious reservations about taking my family out to most of rural America.

        The legacy of homesteading being a “white settler” thing has left indelible marks on many places.

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          29 days ago

          There’s at least one organization working to fix that lingering impact. Outdoorafro.org is all about linking Black Americans with the parks and wild places that have historically been off-limits, dangerous, or discouraged.

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            29 days ago

            I would love to see more people of color embracing America’s wilds, if we had larger communities of color in the woods it wouldn’t feel so dangerous out there. Diversity leads to people not feeling like they own a thing and can make rules about who belongs there.

            I would also love to see more progressives broadly reclaim the US flag and responsible gun ownership. I feel we lost the country because we let them plaster themselves with propaganda and made it feel “gross” to support our country. We allowed the seeding of far too much “America Bad” sentiment and it led to too many young people tuning out and not caring what happens to our home.

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    29 days ago

    Sabre-tooth tigers might sneak up and attack if the fire goes out, at least, I’ve not been attacked by one when the fire is burning, so I just can’t take the risk.

  • Dharma Curious (he/him)@slrpnk.net
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    29 days ago

    That’s 100% my brother. The weirdest part, it looks so much like him I had to text him and ask if the chick in the background is an old girlfriend, because I’m genuinely not sure that’s not my brother.

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        29 days ago

        Really not trying to be rude.

        I don’t have TikTok and don’t want one. I want to be a part of online stuff such as this story you’re telling. But.

        TikTok is fucking cancer on a phone/device that doesn’t have an account and doesn’t (therefore) have the app installed.

        Popups of all forms. Just like sketchy websites. It’s just a red flag. That’s all.

        These experiences really reinforce my decision to NOT have a TikTok.

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          28 days ago

          100% agree. Fucking hate tiktok. Even beyond the data they collect and shit, how skeezy they are about watching the videos makes them so shitty.

          That said, open it in a browser and then set to desktop site it you’re on mobile. It allows it to play without the popups. Mobile browser tiktok feels like a late 90s porn site with the popups

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        28 days ago

        It is insane how much that dude looks like my brother. He even has the exact same shirt and shoes. Like I genuinely thought some random picture of him had been put online. When I texted him about it he had to text his best friend to find out if the chick in the picture was maybe one of the friends old girlfriends or something he’d forgotten about. Even my brother thought it was a picture of him. Lol

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    29 days ago

    I don’t know why, I just have to keep poking that fucker with the dedicated poking stick, then wave the burning poking stick around for a bit.