• Businesskasper@feddit.org
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      To me, “proud” is the wrong word. I didn’t do anything when it comes to founding the EU. So how can I be proud of something I didn’t do? “Grateful” is the better word in my opinion.

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        Pride makes you part of the system. Gatefulness puts you outside of it. It may seem pointless to weigh between the two terms, but surely it is sourced from mindset and influences the mindset.

        We don’t control or significantly influence the system individually. Still, it’s important to take ownership and control, even if it’s only in the very small, even if it’s just being a good citizen, even if it’s just being friendly or supportive of other people. Especially for a diverse, collaborative, and democratic system like Europe it’s important we see ourselves not as passive receivers but as active parts.

        Being a part of the system is enough to be proud as long as you’re not actively working on destroying it. Even if it’s small, even if it’s just being friendly to others, participating is upholding.

        If we don’t see ourselves as active parts of the system, others will influence and change it. The biggest risk is those who have the motivation and capability (be it position, influence, or money) will erode it.

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        The culture that made that happen also played a role in making you who you are. It’s OK to be proud of that.

        (And likewise, it’s good to correct for how your culture influenced you in ways that you aren’t proud of. For example, it took me a long time to realise what Black Peter must look like from the outside.)

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          There isn’t a single European culture, and this word is often a dog whistle to racism, especially in Northern Europe.

          Not saying you’re using it that way, just telling you.

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            No culture is 100%, but we in Europe mostly share a foundational Greco-Roman philosophy and the values of Christianity and Enlightenment.

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              foundational Greco-Roman philosophy

              You mean the one that was gone until it returned from the Islamic world?

              and the values of Christianity

              Uh-huh Palestine isn’t in Europe, last I checked.

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            Wait, what word? Culture?

            Note that I wasn’t talking about European culture specifically, or any specific culture, for that matter. Just that your environment shaped you, and thus you can feel some pride for what that environment also begat. Pride needn’t be reserved for the extreme right.

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      It was, but the power monkeys always want more power. And centralising power in Europe has failed every time in history.

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        Please tell me you are not trying to argue that the EU is doomed to fail because Hitler and Napoleon both failed

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          The EU is doomed to fail if it continues centralising power though.

          Its strength is in its diversity, its consensus model rather than tyranny of majority, allowing smaller countries a voice against larger ones so that Germany and France don’t entirely dominate.

          The EU has a lot of good, but that doesn’t mean we need to bury our heads in the sand to its negatives either. It’s not perfect. It’s better than many similar organisations, and we should praise it for that, but praise doesn’t mean it’s immune to criticism either.

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            You nailed it. A cell-like structure is much harder to penetrate. Unlike a homogeneous blob with one supreme leader.

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            I agree with that (for the most part, I think it could do with a bit more centralisation), but I don’t think it’s what “every time in history” is pointing to

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          The EU was created in 1993. There were no wars in Europe since ww2 until then. Draw your own conclusions

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            You have got to be taking the piss

            • 1946: Greek civil war
            • 1956: Hungarian revolution
            • 1974: Turkish invasion of Cyprus
            • 1989: Romanian revolution
            • 1990: Transnistria War
            • 1991: Yugoslav Wars

            This does not even include the many smaller-scale rebellions or anything that happened in the Caucasus

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              None of those are wars. Bosnia is the first international conflict (war) on European soil since 1945.

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                A) Civil wars are wars by definition.

                B) Some of these conflicts were international. EG the 1956 Hungarian Uprising pitched Soviet-Russian forces against Hungarians.

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                  Yeah, I’m talking major war. Not a civil war. It’s really not a big deal.

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                    Some of the deadliest wars in history were civil wars. The Taiping Rebellion (1850–1864) is up there with WW2.

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                The hell is your definition of a war that excludes all of those? The Hungarian revolution, Turkish invasion of Cyprus, and Transnistria war were all international conflicts as well

                I will also note that the Bosnian war is both part of the Yugoslav wars that I mentioned and also kicked off before the Treaty of Maastricht

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                  Er, the previous definition sets the current one?

                  Conflict is not war. War is international conflict, not two sets of dickheads doing the same thing they’ve been doing for millennia.

                  Here’s a hint. How many countries were involved in Bosnia and when was the first international genocide conviction in Europe since the Nuremberg trials?

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                    Okay so if we take your definition in which a civil war isn’t a war: when the Soviet Union rolled tens of thousands of troops with tanks into Hungary, or when Turkey invaded Cyprus and made a new country out of a third of it, or when Russia put 14,000 troops in Moldova and made a new country out of the bit north of the Dniester, what exactly made those not international in your view?

                    How many countries were involved in Bosnia

                    At least three depending on what you count as a country. Again, given that it started before the EU existed, why are you saying that no wars happened between the end of WWII and the creation of the EU?

                    when was the first international genocide conviction in Europe since the Nuremberg trials?

                    1. What does that have to do with anything?